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COMMUNICATORS: INFLUENCING PEOPLE

Few year ago, while attending one of the meetings related to the Dialogue on Trade Potential between countries, I head a very senior officer explaining his colleague:  One who has knowledge (on a particular subject), needs a platform or people around him where he can speak out his mind. Else he feels restlessness. We should think of holding this trade dialogue.  I noted down the line in my diary -  One who has knowledge (on a particular subject), needs a platform or people around him where he can speak out his mind.  However, in today's scenario, I would edit the above line I wrote in my diary -  One who thinks he has knowledge (on a particular subject), needs people around him to listen. He should not merely dominate his conversation while speaking out his mind but should learn from people around him too.  Few years ago, I believed that the more you talk, the more you think you’ve learned. But now I believe, learning is a lifelong process. A...

TOLERATE NO NEGATIVITY

Birthday celebrations in our friend circle is Dinner - cum - cake cutting ceremony. 9th March. It's my wife's birthday. In the process of inviting my friends to dinner, I called my friend Ankit to extend the dinner invitation. He was in his office and said will call back in the evening. I told him to make no other plans for the dinner.  In the evening, Ankit called my wife and wished her. He said to her that his wife was having a sore throat, body ache and mild fever and they would not be able to join us in the evening.  I then spoke with Ankit regarding his day-to-day work and routine. Ankit then asked me how my work is going on. I said that sometimes I get frustrated by the way I see people around me and that is happening too frequently. He said " Hey man. You cannot be pessimistic. You have been so optimistic all the while that we have also looked up to you. If you become pessimistic, where would we look up for optimism."  Well, this was not known t...

LIVING LIFE

I tweeted it on 4th March. I think I need to change my mind now as I was reading a book on sales. The strategy I am going to follow now is LIVING LIFE. I was not much interested in knowing what's going on in others life. But I would now like to start natural communication with others. I will ask for help. During my workout in the gym, I usually do not seek help in lifiting weights. I will change this behaviour of myself. Asking for help gets the communication flowing.  I usually do not mention about the gym shoes of the other mates, I would simply ask them where they got their shoes or their gym wear from. They may be wearing a brand of sunglasses you like or driving a car you want to know something about. If you are in a restaurant, you can even admire the dish the person at the table next to you ordered and ask about it. I learnt that more more I am participating in life and taking an interest in other people around me, the more I will meet people. I will be more interested in ot...

Cultural Festival: Vasantotsav (વસંતોત્સવ) 2023

 Vasantotsav 2023 Gandhinagar  ( વસંતોત્સવ 2023 ગાંધીનગર) 11 March 2023 - 20 March 2023 Time: 1400 hrs - 2200 hrs Venue: Sanskruti Kunj, Near Sarita Udhyan, J Road, Gandhinagar Vasantotsav is a holistic festival to showcase the cultural activities, handicraft, artefacts, craft bazaar, foods, drinks and cuisines of different states of the country at one venue – reflecting 'Ek Bharat; Shrestha Bharat' The 10-day  cultural fair Vasantotsav 2023 will be inaugurated on Saturday 11 March 2023 at Sanskruti Kunj in Gandhinagar. The annual festival is organised by the Sports, Youth and cultural Affairs Department of Government of Gujarat to celebrate the rich diverse heritage of the country.  Artists from across India come to Gujarat to participate in the festival. Along with dance performances, several stalls will be set up to showcase and sale various local traditional handicraft of different states. The nomenclature that this annual event is a combination of two words; ‘Sa...

Stories: with a Message That Inspire

Story 1  I n Japan, they have a deep love of architecture, and there once was a man named Kota who built some of the finest houses in all of Tokyo. His work became world famous due to his dedication to the process, his willingness to beat on his craft, and his relentless devotion to keep learning, even late into his career. Eventually though, Kota grew tired of building homes for other people, and he was ready to retire. He had been building homes for over thirty years, and he was ready to move on. He wanted to travel and spend lots of time with his grandkids.  One day, Kota approached his boss, and turned in his two-week notice.  His boss said, “Kota, we are forever indebted to you for the magnificent work you have done for our company, and we are so grateful you have worked for us for so long. We do have one favor to ask of you though. Could you please build one more house? It is a very important house, for a very important client, and everyone in the company agreed it ...

Searching (2018)

Usually I keep on searching for movies over the internet for a week and then watch the movie which I shortlist after applying my personal filter criteria as below.  😀 Good Story line  👉Mystery 👉Mind bending  👉Motivating/ Inspiring    👉Lifting up when feeling low   👉Fight movies  😀  IMDb Rating above 6.7 In the evening, I was searching movie and found movie SEARCHING. As both the criteria and the genres were matching, I streamed Searching on Netflix.  It will get you to social media. Face time, chat, Instagram, Facebook, tumbler, bank transfer etc. you will be exposed more to it.  I have always have had a realization that having many friends on social media does not mean that these friends would be the real ones in need. The story subtly brings it to the audience and I firmly believe it now.  However, the same social media friends will take mileage and post how deeply they are connected or how sad they are for you...

PROBLEM TYPES

  Two professors who study the science of complexity - Brenda Zimmerman of York University and Sholom Glouberman of the University of Toronto have proposed a distinction among three different kinds of problems in the world.  a. Simple Problems e.g. baking a cake from a mix. There is a recipe. Sometimes there are few basic techniques to learn. But once these are mastered, following the recipe brings a high likelihood of success.           b. Complicated Problems e.g. sending a rocket to the moon. They can sometimes be broken down into a series of simple problems. But there is no straightforward recipe. Success frequently requires multiple people, often multiple teams, and specialized expertise. Unanticipated difficulties are frequent. Timing and coordination become serious concerns.           c. Complex Problems e.g. raising a child. Once you learn how to send a rocket to the moon, you can repeat the process and perfec...