In life, we often find ourselves waiting—for opportunities, for recognition, for that one moment when everything will fall into place. But what we don’t always realize is that opportunity rarely knocks twice, and when it does, it doesn’t wait around forever.
Let me share a moment from my own journey that taught me this the hard way.
The High of Recognition
It was 2014. I was 30 years old and had the rare chance to work directly with one of the most senior bureaucrats in the state government. We were organizing a premier, high-profile event. It demanded precision, coordination, long hours—and a whole lot of ownership.
I was fully immersed—managing teams, anticipating challenges, and supporting my boss every step of the way. The event was a success. And once it wrapped up, I felt a strong sense of pride, not just for myself but for the team.
What happened next felt like validation.
Two mid-level officers who had seen me in action came up to me. They said:
“We need young professionals and project managers like you to work with us in organizing events of this scale. We want you to join us.”
I was flattered. I felt seen. I thought to myself, “This is it. Finally, people recognize my hard work.” My confidence soared.
I smiled and said, “Thank you, sir.”
They responded warmly: “Do let us know if you feel like joining us.”
I knew who they were. I knew exactly where their offices were. But what did I do?
Nothing.
The Mistake: Waiting Too Long
In the days that followed, I kept replaying that conversation in my head. I expected a follow-up. A call. An email. A meeting.
But time passed. Everyone got busy—including those officers. The buzz around the event faded. So did the momentum.
And I realized a painful truth: I should have acted.
I should have gone to their offices. I should have followed up. I should have made the move while the moment was still fresh—while they still remembered what they saw in me.
Instead, I waited. I assumed that if the universe had brought me to this point, it would carry me further. But the universe doesn’t work like that.
The Lesson: Action Is Everything
Here’s what I learned:
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Recognition is not opportunity. It’s a door. But you still have to walk through it.
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Timing matters. Momentum is a currency—use it before it expires.
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No one owes you the next step. Even if you’ve worked hard, it’s your responsibility to follow up and take the initiative.
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The universe helps those who help themselves. If you don’t act, the opportunity won’t wait. It will move on—and so will everyone else.
We often think the hardest part is getting noticed. But in truth, the real challenge is capitalizing on the moment once you are.
So, what should you do when the universe gives you a nudge?
Act.
Follow up.
Take the conversation forward.
Visit the office.
Make the call.
Send the message.
Build on the momentum. Don’t let it go cold.
Final Thought
If you’re waiting for life to reward you just because you worked hard—wake up. It’s not enough. You have to move, initiate, and follow through.
So when that moment comes—when someone says “We want you,” or when you feel the universe whispering “This is your chance”—don’t just smile and hope.
Step forward. Speak up. Show up.
That’s how you change the trajectory of your life.
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